The Communicable Cause: Asperger's
* Do you have asperger's syndrome?
Yes
* What is asperger’s syndrome?
It is a social disorder where people have trouble connecting with others, like reading their body language and trying to establish relationships. They are obsessive about certain topics that interest them.
*Can you obsess over a relationship?
Yes. I think you can obsess over it because you don’t understand the situation, but you really want to connect with that person. The person with asperger's syndrome is so busy analyzing the other person that they aren’t really making a connection at all. They don’t understand what’s going on in front of them. There’s more to it than that.
* What do you mean by not being able to form bonds because of analyzation?
People with asperger’s are always trying to communicate with others, and they are always digesting the situation around them. The struggle is not being able to communicate with people. They obsess over it because they try hard to communicate with others.
* What are you trying to communicate?
They are trying to communicate how they feel. Like wanting to get to know a girl better, or getting to know a person better.
* What do you want to get to know about a person?
Depends on the situation, but some people with asperger's want to get to know a girl and have a better connection and others want to make friends.
* Looking at your past relationships with girls, what have been some successes, tragedies, and room for growth?
When I was young i couldn’t even talk to a girl, it would scare me. It was scary asking for dates, and numbers, building a relationship. My failure or tragedy was not reading the situation in front of me and looking at what they said. It ended up with me in the friend zone or being completely rejected. I couldn't read their social cues, or what they were trying to say. I’d like to work on building a better relation with women, being able to communicate myself better, and not have any walls around them. Being able to just speak clearly, what's on my mind. Build a deeper relationship through communication.
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